Why is a woman dating a younger man called a smart choice?

Being a woman carries the biggest task, and one should know that you have very much to do with your feminine energy and excellent gift that a younger man can bring you to rev up your attractiveness.

Reasons why should you date a younger man or get entertained with a younger guy?

You might haven’t noticed, many younger guys who occasionally blow up on your online dating app or message you, or try to flirt with you. You get confused why these younger men keep on sending or blowing up now?

You might be single, divorced, or chosen separated and of above 30 or 40, and why this is now? It is an interesting phenomenon called ‘Mrs. Robinson Syndrome’.

We’re going to demonstrate the fact, how this would work and help in the long run to date men who’re younger than you.

Why do men want to date women older than them?

There are a lot of men out there who are aware of what they want in their life, the connections they want to have with a person, what that will look and feel like, instead of being younger is better.

They are more interested in the type of maturity one woman can have or quality, and even they have preferred how old a woman looks rather than a little go pretty girl like features and many more like:

Sex

The older you’ll grow, the more comfortable you’ll get with your body and rather when you’re in your 20’s. The more you’ll be comfortable with your body, the more you’ll be comfortable with your partner. You’ll be able to cherish others and give them the chances to explore the more passionate side of having a relationship.

A woman always tries to make her man feel good when he’s with her. So, he’ll be able to explore more that he has never experienced before. The first thing a woman should do is find a man who just wants to make love to every part so that she finds it acceptable or desirable. And feeling good is a point where your feminine energy radiates and becomes powerful when you’re out of the dump.

Fun Factor

As young guys are more updated with the latest tech and gadgets more broadly, and also more active in other activities, it is assumed that they’re more fit to have fun with.

They can make you feel younger, invincible, and powerful than you ever felt before. They can make you try new outfits, visit new places, make you laugh, feel lovable, and many more.

Really into you

Have you ever asked a man you are dating, why they’re into you or older women? Men like dating older women than them because the sexual interaction they feel with you will be more exotic and appealing than they have ever felt before. Moreover, Like women, they know how to take their shit together, and to handle things more maturely and smartly. Also with a woman’s strong personality, men get attracted to them already that they cannot resist, Voila!!

You can be yourself with them

You know at a certain age, you accept yourself for who you’re and do not care what others think of you. So when you come into contact or date any young man, you may get careful of your looks or how to present your beauty to them, but you will be yourself with them and need not pretend to be someone else. Because you know somewhere they’re attracted towards who you are, how strong personality you’re carrying and not how you look.

So, My dear ladies, there’s no shame in dating men, especially if they’re younger than you, because you know who you’re and your accomplishments. Besides, This will help you to identify your feminine energy that will ignite your personality, making you embrace this. Younger men are less baggage and less intimidating than older guys. If you think dating a younger man will undervalue women in society, this is the time to think again if society repays you or not!

How to make your mind minding your business?

We’re so fucked up with ours lives these days that we don’t want to hold any crap from the next person. And by instance, if any even tiny and small dispute or issue occurs, then our overthinking overpowers the stress level at a higher stage. We’ll be smiling by responding to them, but then thinking of the worse scenarios on the other sides. Instead of talking straight to them, we start taking shitty advice from others, with whom has nothing to do with, but just the tip of gossip.

And the spark ignites by social media platform and the memes and quotes on “minding your own business and maintaining the distances from others as well”. 

Tips on minding your own business

Things I’ve learned so far are:

  • Do not share the things or the matter with others who do not have to do with the same.
  • If you do, they might share a few of their suggestions to resolve things out, but then the issue will be the new gossip factor to others and nothing else.
  • And also there might be the possibilities that to the person you’re sharing the things might organize their new mindset of the person you’re having the issues with, It’s in the positive or negative matter, depends on the seriousness and the context of the matter.
  • There may also have the probabilities that if you share the things, then they may create dispute with the more masala magic of their own the same person you have shared the words, if they hold any further grudges against you.

In the last, I’ll advise you to share your words wisely with whosoever sharing the same.

Social Covers: We All Have One In Our Trues

Happy New Year to my Chip Chop Family! I really wish the best for all of us towards 2021.
What I’m observing is, the world(including myself) is running, running into the crowd of getting better and earning more from one another, the more we’ve started holding on to the masks called “Social Covers”. Pardon please, I’m no one to make any statement on this, the world has already been through a lot in 2020, that we became more conscious of our health, both physical and mental, especially in lockdown, where human contact stated prohibited. This taught us to be independent and to enjoy our own company because we cannot rely even upon the ones who’d somewhere promised to be with us no matter what, and when this came to practice, some of them lose, some prove it to be in a better way, especially who never promised such thing.
Which comes up the solution is, promises and expectations sucks, even though if we think like if we love someone, those things generate automatically, but not in every scenario. Although I’m sharing my own experience of 2020, I accept, It was not up with the mark, but I learned a lot.
The First covering of this ‘Social Cover’ named was, Men are not supposed to get hurt and feel weak or cry even if something dishonest or miserable happens, and if he does so, he’ll be taken too weak to be sweet for society or the outer world that he should keep in perseverance.

The second was, how independent could women can get, but she should not be supposed to have a partner before marriage, she should not step out alone after 9, No matter how good she is in her office or business work or how much she is earning, but she needs to be brilliant in households,
If she lacks somewhere, there will be questions on her upbringing then.

So many questions, so many experiences, so much to learn more, but still a dilemma will continue…

The Unfolded Secret: Not The Revealing Session Though!!

Each of us has that on an unfolded secret, we wish and desire but can’t utter, though, not even to our close ones though, because of its intimidating tendency. It’s so intense that sometimes terrifies us, terrified of being judged if shared with anyone. Even some of us wouldn’t know if they’ve any but still finds something is lacking in their life and path of pleasure and peace even if they have/ had everything.

I hope you guys got what I want you to get, See you soon!!

I’ll not exaggerate the term “Secrets and Desires” because everyone has their own different perspective fluctuating. Specifically, in India, Even if you take the thought of sharing the thing with your trusting one, but still your mind might have to stop you once, why? Just for the sake of not becoming a subject of laughter to that one. I’m not sure, maybe everyone is not like I’m describing, but still, it’s just the fear.

If you feel like sharing this thing with the person you think will lead to the pathway to wanted, just dash off a shot, because we never know what we’re going to be missing!!

I hope you guys got what I want you to get, See you around!!

Live-in, India And Society

Coming with time, the ever thing which was consistent was the change, change in living patterns, change in understanding and mentality, and change towards independence. We’re seeing our country as Revolutionary India, a New leading country, etc. But some parts are still unavoidable of the society. Some realities are still harsh and rough to digest for our society like how they can even exist, for example, homosexual relationships, growing Transgenders, self-governing women, and the other one, “Live in Relationship” also called cohabitation.

What does a Live-in relationship mean?

A Live-in relationship is like a couple who’s living together without any legal bond between the parties, like a no-strings-attached relationship, a win-win situation for both to know each other better in person instead of spending some specific hours but sharing one’s lifestyle with one another. In simple words, it’s a walk-in or walk-out relationship, people prefer mostly before tying a knot and making it all allegedly disciplined. 

How does it look like to in a live-in relationship in India?

Moving-in together is considered as beyond pale in India. To be honest, the status of live-in India is not up to the mark, as it is still very new to our society and hence seen as a stigma.

This concept has entered India in the millennial age, so it’ll never be surprised if people of previous generations will show their back or may ask what the live-in relationship actually is?

Just forget society for some time, and just talk about our families. Do you really think our family gonna understand this if they found you want to hop into this relationship without marriage?

The answer will surely be NO, but still, the number of such relations is increasing gradually.

People are still holding on to the mentality that it harms the long-cherished values of institutions and cultures like marriage and family.  

Laws procured for Live-In relation in India

In India, the Domestic Violence Act 2005 included within its influence in live-in relationships under which a woman has with a man “a relationship in the nature of marriage” can go to court if abused. This relationship has seen none less than a marriage under the eye of the law, but without entering legally into it, and it is legal under the law but has to follow the norms.

The best part of staying in live-in is to stay honest and happy with your companion, or somehow if it’s not going well then you can end this on that point. Even though Bollywood has also portrayed this concept in their movies and showed the two different sides of societies, one where all are happily accepting the two’s relationship and encouraging them to make it permanent, and second where families of both the parties as opposing it.

We cannot say they have the narrow passage of their thinking because they had never seen such a thing previously in their times. But it differs from person to person, some are open to changes, some of them do block their head to understand or even hear the others for even once. 

The chaos has been scattered all over, but majorly into our minds, we cannot just directly put on the blame directly on society for being a non-understandable community, they will deffinetly show their opposite side to this changes and enhancement, But eventually things are still running on. According to their beliefs as marriage is the foundation of a family, if their beliefs get hurt in any manner, they’ll surely react to this. Though cohabitation is made legal in India, it is still a matter of taboo in many parts. Such couples have sometimes faced threats from the outward loop. Yet, thing demands the change in accordance with the time and hoping this might get better with time as well.