Domestic violence: Silent suffering of male victims

While discussing domestic violence, we always reflect a woman as a victim and a man as a convict, but is the situation exactly like this? Whether we say its a new India, but still somewhere male reign society does exist, and talking like male dominance where every NGO workers are sustainable and working for women empowerment, is the offense is something is hard to digest and believe, but the truth is 14% of the male are facing this. According to the reported cases, Domestic violence against men is rising day by day and can turn to a serious threat to the sufferer.

What do domestic violence means and laws against it?

Domestic violence is the actions taken violently by the spouse or partner in an intimate relationship such as marriages or cohabitation (live in), this can take place in between heterosexual or same-sex marriages or relationships. It often occurs during the situation where an abuser believes their type of abuse won’t get into the acknowledgment or it is acceptable towards their partner which might affect your surrounding, relations or can put a major effect on your children. The seriousness of this issue is still not understood by the government, hence new protection movements have been created. The general acumen is that men cannot be sufferers of violence.

In recent years where we work more for women’s rights, the more cases of beating or harassing men by their wives or partner have come in front. We aren’t sympathetic to the victim men, as per the social perception, men are stronger and can never be beaten or even harassed by their wives but there are reported cases are shown that scenarios may have diverse actions, and men keep hiding them because if somehow revealed, nothing but they’ll turn to be the character of jokes, waves of laughter and mockery.

Types of abuses they might get suffer from:

Here’s the question arises, why can’t men leave abusive relationships? Despite talking about gender, leaving a relationship, when especially it an abusive and disturbing, it’s not that easy. There would have reasons shown by your family or friends to not to end the commitment because of:

Believes connected to your togetherness: that what people will say that you’ve not been able to handle a woman, or you need to save your marriage or relationship for the sake of others connected to it.

Denial on giving up: Similar to female victims, denying on accepting the problem with their relationship which only lengthen the space of abuse. Men also believe that they will change their partner so what if they’ll beat you up, men believe in changing their partner with their love sometimes caught up into isolated advice.

Lacking in resources and shreds of evidence: Many men believed that they’ll find difficulty being believed by the authorities because Indian men are being slapped with a dowry harassment case. It is not only difficult to prove them as sufferers and to shake off the social stigma that comes with being charged with such an act, but also cases tend to be in the woman’s favor.

Domestic violence against men is not the matter of laughter, but the deadliest issues taking place even in our surrounding, but not in our acknowledgment, if you find anything going on around you, instead of ignoring the seriousness of the issue, you should take pictures as evidence and directly report to the authorities. Let’s hope legislation should be made against it to turn this drift.

Ram Mandir Inauguration: 5th August 2020, The most awaiting moment for Indians! Will this bring a warm fellowship between the citizens?

The very owned day for Indians has arrived, Ram Mandir Bhoomi Pujan in Ayodhya held on 5th August 2020 during the pandemic where everyone is scared of this Corona Virus, our respected prime minister Mr. Narendra Modi came forward and placed the foundation stone to the site followed by Indian rituals and Mantras. He lay 40kg silver brick which represented as a sacred and historic start of the temple as believed as birthplace of our Hindu god Lord Ram.
Here is the list about the preparation of bhhoomi pujan ceremony along following Covid protocols:

  • Lightening and decoration as it is a birthday of Lord Ram.
  • Sanitation and Maintaining Social distancing.
  • Foundation Brick.
  • Holistic preparation with Priests and Mantra Chanting.
  • Laddoos as Prashad.

Lightening & decoration as it is Diwali itself

The whole temple had been decorated with tons of flowers, varieties of flowers were brought from all around India as well as from Thailand to bring white orchids. The whole city was decorated and painted like a bride to be.

Sanitation and Maintaining Social distancing

All the COVID-19 protocols have been followed and the surroundings where prepared in the way like the guests that had been invited, their sittings was planned under the norms. All the temple and the surroundings were kept sanitized regularly concerning with safety purpose of the guests and the defense forces.

Foundation Brick

During the Bhoomi pujan, our honorable prime minister had laid the foundation of the temple with the 40kg silver brick which was donated by the chairman of Shri Ram Janmbhoomi Teerth Kshetra Trust, Mahant Nritya Gopal Das. However, the brick was removed after the ceremony of the Ram mandir’s Bhoomi pujan. It will be encashed and money will further be used in the construction of the Ram Mandir in Ayodhya.

Laddoos as Prashad

During the most awaited ceremony, 1.25 lakh desi ghee laddoos were prepared as Prashad, where 51000 laddoos were handed over to Ram Janmabhoomi Teerth Kshetra Trust during the occasion. The ceremony was conducted by the 11 scholars of Kashi. These Raghupati Laddoos was distributed all over the ceremony to the devotees.

The Ram Temple in Ayodhya represents the emotions of sacredness and unity as it believed as the birthplace to Lord Ram. Wait of the Centuries is finally over, hope the construction will complete soon without getting into any interruption now.