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The Unsatisfactory facet Of Life

Everyone has their own unresolved and incomplete aspects of life which they prefer to keep unopened. So do I have, not related to me but surely linked to one known to me, I would like to keep their identities hidden.

There’s one guy, around 36, married late to a woman during the pandemic. He still didn’t want to get married, but he had to because his parents were forcing him to do so. After marriage, he experienced new things, got to know the female love as a lover, and comes out as totally changed and a new person. 

The woman was average with her looks, but for him, she was everything, he fell in love with her by the time. He accepted her in every way, but she felt the complex every time because she was not so beautiful as everyone out there.

She started working at a very young age, so had very hard hands with kitchen stuff, don’t know how to cook, even hustling with the basic household after. But her mother in law was very supportive and allow her to learn with time.

But then something drastic happened that nobody could thought it off, everyone came to know that she cannot be get pregnant ever in her life, though everyone was aware of this there in her maternal home before she got married, still, they hide the truth from him. When the reports came, he asked her the reason in a very loving manner, she knew the reason was related to her ex-boyfriend, but she still hasn’t uttered any word, they sent her to her parents home. The situation came up to the divorce now, according to his family, she did fraud to him. His parents are not satisfied now he got thought that he got cheated with a woman, nor were satisfied when he chooses to be single.

According to me, she might be wrong where she preferred to keep the things hidden, but there might be a thought somewhere in her sub-conscious mind to get settled, having a husband, family, and she can adopt a child later, as every girl dreamt of someday this to have happened.
What’s your thought on this??You can mail me directly in my inbox your opinions on this?

Social Covers: We All Have One In Our Trues

Happy New Year to my Chip Chop Family! I really wish the best for all of us towards 2021.
What I’m observing is, the world(including myself) is running, running into the crowd of getting better and earning more from one another, the more we’ve started holding on to the masks called “Social Covers”. Pardon please, I’m no one to make any statement on this, the world has already been through a lot in 2020, that we became more conscious of our health, both physical and mental, especially in lockdown, where human contact stated prohibited. This taught us to be independent and to enjoy our own company because we cannot rely even upon the ones who’d somewhere promised to be with us no matter what, and when this came to practice, some of them lose, some prove it to be in a better way, especially who never promised such thing.
Which comes up the solution is, promises and expectations sucks, even though if we think like if we love someone, those things generate automatically, but not in every scenario. Although I’m sharing my own experience of 2020, I accept, It was not up with the mark, but I learned a lot.
The First covering of this ‘Social Cover’ named was, Men are not supposed to get hurt and feel weak or cry even if something dishonest or miserable happens, and if he does so, he’ll be taken too weak to be sweet for society or the outer world that he should keep in perseverance.

The second was, how independent could women can get, but she should not be supposed to have a partner before marriage, she should not step out alone after 9, No matter how good she is in her office or business work or how much she is earning, but she needs to be brilliant in households,
If she lacks somewhere, there will be questions on her upbringing then.

So many questions, so many experiences, so much to learn more, but still a dilemma will continue…

The Unfolded Secret: Not The Revealing Session Though!!

Each of us has that on an unfolded secret, we wish and desire but can’t utter, though, not even to our close ones though, because of its intimidating tendency. It’s so intense that sometimes terrifies us, terrified of being judged if shared with anyone. Even some of us wouldn’t know if they’ve any but still finds something is lacking in their life and path of pleasure and peace even if they have/ had everything.

I hope you guys got what I want you to get, See you soon!!

I’ll not exaggerate the term “Secrets and Desires” because everyone has their own different perspective fluctuating. Specifically, in India, Even if you take the thought of sharing the thing with your trusting one, but still your mind might have to stop you once, why? Just for the sake of not becoming a subject of laughter to that one. I’m not sure, maybe everyone is not like I’m describing, but still, it’s just the fear.

If you feel like sharing this thing with the person you think will lead to the pathway to wanted, just dash off a shot, because we never know what we’re going to be missing!!

I hope you guys got what I want you to get, See you around!!

Break Up To Mend Up!!

Hello!! I’m back again, back with all the positives, yet with slight disappointment, but I’ll mend it up soon though. We all make fun of the person who’ll share their experience they’d gone after the break-up. Some of us laugh or gave their own headed suggestions to the one who’s trying to deal with this. I’d heard myself the phrases people said to me when I’d this, like:

“ Bro! There’s much more to do except rolling out your tears on that crepe.”

“You’re lucky that you’d come out of this shit soon”

“There’s more things, apart from your love life and griefs, look out your family”

“HAHAHA!! Bro, Where are you stuck at, dive-in some leisure, love is all shit”

And many more…. 

But what the truth is, we all know. If we’d dreams, emotions, and senses connected to the person,  and when this suddenly ends, It hurts, RIGHT??

Most of you would call this crap for sure, I really don’t care to be honest, but to those who can relate, will surely know what I really wanna conveys through this.

Yes, I agree career, families and friend are important because they won’t leave you by throwing on any shitty reason, but make you feel warm, warmth of love and care. For those, who is looking for an emotional support after this painful heartbreak, I would suggest you to speak your soul out to your most trusted friend or family member. The next question would be,

What if a person doesn’t have someone to talk after their breakup?

Talking to self is better than anything else, but if still you don’t have anyone to talk, take a journal, and write every bit of your heart says, trust me it won’t disappoint you, and truly what I’m performing these days. You would rather think this as non-sense, but this is not even that bad, lol! And one more thing, It is really very important to speak out everything to your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend, want they had done wrong, what this made you suffer through, roar out everything, this will help you to put off the baggage, halted on your shoulders for very long probably.

Talking to self is better than anything else, but if still you don’t have anyone to talk, take a journal, and write every bit of your heart says, trust me it won’t disappoint you, and truly what I’m performing these days. You would rather think this as non-sense, but this is not even that bad, lol! And one more thing, It is really very important to speak out everything to your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend, want they had done wrong, what this made you suffer through, roar out everything, this will help you to put off the baggage, halted on your shoulders for very long probably.