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Top 5 movies based on how prostitution and human trafficking is leading India.

Along with other issues, prostitution and human trafficking have also now become an issue of alarm and fear around the state, you don’t know if the next person travelling following you can be a trafficker or a pimp parceling one of his parcels. According to the National Crime and Records Bureau (NCRB) issued its 2017 and 2018 Crime in India Reports, which used a different modus operandi than previous years. In 2018, the government reported 1,830 trafficking cases under the IPC, a continued decrease of 2,854 cases, trafficking cases reported in 2017 and 5,217 cases in 2016. It was unclear which sections of the IPC this data included. In 2018, the government completed court proceedings in 545 trafficking cases, prosecuted 322 traffickers in 95 cases, and acquitted 1,124 suspects in 450 cases. The acquittal rate for trafficking cases increased to 83% in 2018. These statistics were compared to the government completing the proceeding in 670 cases, convicting 249 traffickers in 165 cases, and acquitting 1,155 suspects in 505 cases in 2017, with 76% of cases resulting in acquittal.

How Bollywood has predicted the brothels conditions so far?

Though, I’ve collected some data from all over the net, reviewed by me personally which will show everything guys you want to know, sharing with you over:

5 most relatable movies based on prostitution in India:

  1. Sold
  2. Lakshmi
  3. Tikli and Laxmi Bomb
  4. Flesh
  5. Aashram

1. Sold (2014)

This movie shows the journey of a Nepali girl named Lakshmi being trafficked from her mountain village in Nepal to a brothel in India and how she has been rescued by Sophia, an American photographer who has arrived in India to work with an anti-trafficking organization, Hope House.

Movie Link: SOLD

2. Lakshmi (2014)

This movie shows the harsh realities of the human trafficking and child prostitution, which continues behind closed curtains in rural and urban areas simultaneously under the nose of the big names of politics and others industries, where supplies has been sent accordingly. 

Movie Link: LAKSHMI

3. Tikli and Laxmi Bomb (2017)

Brothels and their conditions are not hidden from us today, still India is leading rapidly in this human trading business. This movie depicts the overview of it so that you’ll get an idea of it.

Movie Link: Tikli and Laxmi Bomb

4. Flesh (2020)

Flesh web series on ErosNow solely based on human trafficking, depicts the story of two completely different girls who survive the ordeal of being victims of the sex and human trafficking industry of India.

Movie Link: FLESH

5. Aashram(2020)

Its a cult based drama, where, how an ashram guru spreads fallacy delusion between his devotees and controls the politics, underneath, also exploits his devotees by various ways, like drugs, trafficking etc.

Movie Link: AASHRAM

How to make your mind minding your business?

We’re so fucked up with ours lives these days that we don’t want to hold any crap from the next person. And by instance, if any even tiny and small dispute or issue occurs, then our overthinking overpowers the stress level at a higher stage. We’ll be smiling by responding to them, but then thinking of the worse scenarios on the other sides. Instead of talking straight to them, we start taking shitty advice from others, with whom has nothing to do with, but just the tip of gossip.

And the spark ignites by social media platform and the memes and quotes on “minding your own business and maintaining the distances from others as well”. 

Tips on minding your own business

Things I’ve learned so far are:

  • Do not share the things or the matter with others who do not have to do with the same.
  • If you do, they might share a few of their suggestions to resolve things out, but then the issue will be the new gossip factor to others and nothing else.
  • And also there might be the possibilities that to the person you’re sharing the things might organize their new mindset of the person you’re having the issues with, It’s in the positive or negative matter, depends on the seriousness and the context of the matter.
  • There may also have the probabilities that if you share the things, then they may create dispute with the more masala magic of their own the same person you have shared the words, if they hold any further grudges against you.

In the last, I’ll advise you to share your words wisely with whosoever sharing the same.

The Unsatisfactory facet Of Life

Everyone has their own unresolved and incomplete aspects of life which they prefer to keep unopened. So do I have, not related to me but surely linked to one known to me, I would like to keep their identities hidden.

There’s one guy, around 36, married late to a woman during the pandemic. He still didn’t want to get married, but he had to because his parents were forcing him to do so. After marriage, he experienced new things, got to know the female love as a lover, and comes out as totally changed and a new person. 

The woman was average with her looks, but for him, she was everything, he fell in love with her by the time. He accepted her in every way, but she felt the complex every time because she was not so beautiful as everyone out there.

She started working at a very young age, so had very hard hands with kitchen stuff, don’t know how to cook, even hustling with the basic household after. But her mother in law was very supportive and allow her to learn with time.

But then something drastic happened that nobody could thought it off, everyone came to know that she cannot be get pregnant ever in her life, though everyone was aware of this there in her maternal home before she got married, still, they hide the truth from him. When the reports came, he asked her the reason in a very loving manner, she knew the reason was related to her ex-boyfriend, but she still hasn’t uttered any word, they sent her to her parents home. The situation came up to the divorce now, according to his family, she did fraud to him. His parents are not satisfied now he got thought that he got cheated with a woman, nor were satisfied when he chooses to be single.

According to me, she might be wrong where she preferred to keep the things hidden, but there might be a thought somewhere in her sub-conscious mind to get settled, having a husband, family, and she can adopt a child later, as every girl dreamt of someday this to have happened.
What’s your thought on this??You can mail me directly in my inbox your opinions on this?

Social Covers: We All Have One In Our Trues

Happy New Year to my Chip Chop Family! I really wish the best for all of us towards 2021.
What I’m observing is, the world(including myself) is running, running into the crowd of getting better and earning more from one another, the more we’ve started holding on to the masks called “Social Covers”. Pardon please, I’m no one to make any statement on this, the world has already been through a lot in 2020, that we became more conscious of our health, both physical and mental, especially in lockdown, where human contact stated prohibited. This taught us to be independent and to enjoy our own company because we cannot rely even upon the ones who’d somewhere promised to be with us no matter what, and when this came to practice, some of them lose, some prove it to be in a better way, especially who never promised such thing.
Which comes up the solution is, promises and expectations sucks, even though if we think like if we love someone, those things generate automatically, but not in every scenario. Although I’m sharing my own experience of 2020, I accept, It was not up with the mark, but I learned a lot.
The First covering of this ‘Social Cover’ named was, Men are not supposed to get hurt and feel weak or cry even if something dishonest or miserable happens, and if he does so, he’ll be taken too weak to be sweet for society or the outer world that he should keep in perseverance.

The second was, how independent could women can get, but she should not be supposed to have a partner before marriage, she should not step out alone after 9, No matter how good she is in her office or business work or how much she is earning, but she needs to be brilliant in households,
If she lacks somewhere, there will be questions on her upbringing then.

So many questions, so many experiences, so much to learn more, but still a dilemma will continue…