Happy New Year to my Chip Chop Family! I really wish the best for all of us towards 2021.
What I’m observing is, the world(including myself) is running, running into the crowd of getting better and earning more from one another, the more we’ve started holding on to the masks called “Social Covers”. Pardon please, I’m no one to make any statement on this, the world has already been through a lot in 2020, that we became more conscious of our health, both physical and mental, especially in lockdown, where human contact stated prohibited. This taught us to be independent and to enjoy our own company because we cannot rely even upon the ones who’d somewhere promised to be with us no matter what, and when this came to practice, some of them lose, some prove it to be in a better way, especially who never promised such thing.
Which comes up the solution is, promises and expectations sucks, even though if we think like if we love someone, those things generate automatically, but not in every scenario. Although I’m sharing my own experience of 2020, I accept, It was not up with the mark, but I learned a lot.
The First covering of this ‘Social Cover’ named was, Men are not supposed to get hurt and feel weak or cry even if something dishonest or miserable happens, and if he does so, he’ll be taken too weak to be sweet for society or the outer world that he should keep in perseverance.
The second was, how independent could women can get, but she should not be supposed to have a partner before marriage, she should not step out alone after 9, No matter how good she is in her office or business work or how much she is earning, but she needs to be brilliant in households,
If she lacks somewhere, there will be questions on her upbringing then.
So many questions, so many experiences, so much to learn more, but still a dilemma will continue…